The following story comes from Earl Nightingale's Book, The Essence of Success, and a part of me feels the reason we are in this economic mess is summarized in this story. As an introduction, the story revolves around a type of caterpillar called the processionary caterpilar.
Don't Follow the Follower
Processionary caterpillars travel in long, undulating lines, one creature behind the other. Jean Hanri Fabre, a French entomologist, once led a group of these caterpillars onto the rim of a large flowerpot so that the leader of the procession found himself nose to tail with the last caterpillar in the procession, forming a circle without end or beginning.
Through sheer force of habit and instinct, the ring of caterpillars circled the flowerpot for seven days and seven nights, until they died from exhaustion and starvation, even though an ample supply of food was close at hand and plainly visible.
Earl Nightingale follows this up by stating; People often behave in a similar way. Habit patterns and ways of thinking become deeply established and it seems easier and more comforting to follow them than to cope with change, even when that change may represent freedom, achievement, and success. So many people "miss the boat" because it's easier and more comforting to follow - to follow without questioning the qualifications of the people just ahead - than to do some independent thinking and checking.
Here's where I chime in: One of the primary reasons many homeowners are in such a mess these days is that they just followed the herd - whether it was a neighbor, a co-worker, or the advice of their loan broker. It may have come from envy, jealousy, laziness, or one-upsmanship. They didn't do their independent thinking and check to determine if their purchase or refinance decision was right for them. They anticipated the line would keep moving - and in the context of home prices and job incomes - linearly and upward. They never thought about possibly losing one-half of a two-income household, that home prices could go down, or that lending restrictions may get tighter. They forgot that a home owner's budget is more than just principal, interest, taxes and insurance and that it requires funds for utilities, maintenance, and upkeep. They let others do the thinking for them and now blame them. They let others convince them that Comfort in a home means the biggest house with granite countertops and stainless steel appliances. What is REAL comfort in a home - To me its having peace of mind and knowing that you can sleep at night. It's buying and living in a home that YOU know YOU can afford - not what somebody else tells you can afford. My advice is DO YOUR OWN THINKING - don't be that processionary caterpillar.